London Fire Victims Counselling 2017
I am currently running a campaign to
provide professional bereavement and grief counselling to the survivors of the Grenfeld Tower Fire who are suffering from
the psychological trauma of loosing their loved ones including very young children in the worst fire tragedy that the
modern world has seen in our times. Not only are the survivors unable to grieve for their loss as they have not accepted their
loss, but worst is that they are living with shocking and extremely traumatic memories and images in their minds of their
loved ones suffering in the fire. Although the fire is no longer harming victims and the victims who were caught in the tower
are now no more, in the hearts, minds and souls of the survivors, their loved ones are still suffering, still screaming, still
in pain calling out for help. This is the unspeakable psychological trauma that needs healing. This is what the brave heroic
fire fighters may also be going through. If these people are not offered professional therapy they will continue to go through
extremely traumatic emotional and psychological pain and suffering including Post Traumatic Stress Disorder for the rest of
their lives. Please view my campaign on Gofundme.com
Why is there a need
to advocate the rights of the disabled which are enshrined in EU, UN and International Law ?
A right to equal access to opportunities, the right to compensation of any shortcoming
in order that a disabled person may live their life to the best of their potential and a right to equal participation in society
seem to be very far fetched practicals for me as I advocate for something very simple and essential to all of us. The right
to be treated with dignity and respect.
Worldwide, governments, international organisations and various kinds
of movements, charities, NGOs and DPOs have deposited enormous amounts of legal legislation and information on many information
platforms about the rights of disabled people.
Yet everyday hundreds of thousands of disabled people blatently face not only the violation of their legal rights
but outright abuse in the form of indignity, intimidation, disrespect, apart from discrimination and intolerance. Hence it
is not enough to have a legislation in writing but we must actively call to task any and every incident where a disabled person
rights are violated.
I hope that with my efforts as a Disability
Rights Advocate and Legal and Psychology Advisor, I can bring about a change in the ignorance of businesses and government
officials in the matter of EU and International disability rights and laws.
Psychological Injury and Disability
Disabled people live with more then just physical shortcomings.
They often carry deep psychological injuries and hence are much more vulnerable than the average person. Ironically, they
are also the ones facing more than average discrimination, harassment and intimidation while being increasing vulnerable and
This can only be done when the law is enforced to the full extent by noting and prosecuting
violators and violations. Silence is not the solution.
London Riots Counselling Campaign
In August 2011, I launched a campaing to
offer counselling and support to disaffected youth groups who were rioting in London in response to the cuts to education
funding which coincided with the tragic police shooting of Mark Duggan. As the riots raged into violence, I offered support
and counselling not only youth groups but also to London residents affected by the riots for which I also setup a website
and a telephone line for support. I was helped in this campaign by Dr. Raymond Hamden in Dubai from the Human Relations Institute
and the campaign was featured in a local newspaper in Dubai. Links to the website and newspapaer article.
I am all too
familiar with living life with a hidden disability. As a young, educated, articulate woman people are often shocked when I
brush aside their jokes and mockery about my 'sunglasses' and inform them that I am visually impaired. But instead of taking
their ignorance as an insult, I see it as a victory and possibility for other disabled people to be able to live life as normally
as possible. However, looking 'normal' without any obvious signs of being disabled can be a nightmare for many people as I
have witnessed myself countless times like being refused or mocked at Schiphol Airport at Amsterdam at several occasions for
asking for disability assistance. I continue to campaign by writing to the authorities at Schiphol Airport to address their
A voice for the Disabled
My last conversation with the ground crew
of British Airways at Schiphol Airport in Amsterdam in February this year (2016) when I was refused assistance was that just
because someone does not look disabled, it does not mean that they are not disabled and that they don't need assistance. Just
because someone is young and well dressed, it does not mean that they are not disabled.
Incidents like this make me empathise with the experiences of disabled people and how terrible
such experiences must be a disabled person. As a psychology counsellor, I can affirm that disability can erode a person's
sense of self-esteem, confidence, competence and self-worth and this can make it extremely difficult for a disabled person
to stand up for their rights against the ignorant. Thus I made it my life's mission to campaign against the violations of
corporations and even government officials against the disabled